It's like when you moved out of your parents' house and got your own place or went to college. And lastly, there will be a time in the relationship where you meet her children.If you really love her, loving her children will be no obstacle.You can be sure that when you are raiding her kitchen, you will once again experience the glory of childhood.
For a long time, that deal breaker for me was dating a single mom.
I just couldn't wrap my head around potentially stepping in as the stepfather. Would he resent me for being involved with his mother? How would this affect him if we had more kids in the future? Questions like these were too difficult for me to answer, so I just avoided single moms like jorts on a summer day.
but dating when you have FOUR kids is like the Mt Everest of the dating world!
It seems almost impossible for men to see past that.
Well, let me clarify: I have no shortage of “dates”. I have an outgoing personality and seem to be asked out a lot…
I guess I must be in reasonable shape because NOBODY can guess I’ve even had four kids, or that I’m even 34 (I get asked out by guys in their early 20s- I feel like I should read them a story and tuck them into bed… we usually go on a few dates, everything is going wonderful… I’m not talking about church bells, but just to an actual relationship. I am sick of being treated like a piece of ass, and treated like I must be desperate because I have kids.Why is it that in any relationship, there's always that one unnerving deal breaker?It doesn't matter how serendipitous your initial meeting was or how great of chemistry you two have... And when it does, you have to ask yourself: Do you settle, or do you break things off?I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.I believe I have a lot to offer – I am caring, kind, warm, loyal and intelligent. I am not looking for a father for the boys; they have one.I’m tired of guys treating me like I should be grateful if they even stick around for five minutes. Do I need to be a nun in order to find someone who can actually see a relationship with me?