In the first few casual dates, prior to any discussion of exclusivity or commitment, both men and women are guilty of blowing off a romantic interest.Do you really owe someone a let down response if you’re only in the “getting to know you” stage?Focusing a keen eye on the part of the dating path where you stumble the most will help you smooth things out and get you back on track.
These people may just want a car with more seat belts or different hubcaps, or they may simply be willing to settle for an amethyst.
A good salesman knows that every sale is important, but he also knows how to size up a person who’s not buying, so he can get on with his day and make a real sale.
And don’t forget the other types of love all around you!
The bonds you have with family and friends are more important than a few relative strangers’ decisions on whether or not to date you.
When love seems to be slamming the door in your face, it’s important to remember the windows you’ve opened for yourself.
These can be personal goals met, adversities overcome at work, self-expression achieved through art, or the contribution made by helping others.
Does your love life feel like a broken record that keeps skipping the second date?
Or maybe it doesn’t even get that far—you enjoy a nice email exchange and a couple phone calls but always wind up riding solo on the Lonesometown Express.
By keeping a clear head and not sweating the small stuff, you can minimize the bruises and scrapes of wayward love and get centered in your quest to find the person you want to be with.
What techniques do you use to keep your head up in the world of dating?
If no one wants to go on a second dinner date, perhaps you need to choose a new restaurant for the first date!