3) Those that have witty, sarcastic, a bit edgy profiles appear to be REALLY jaded.
It's not always the easiest path (see Blue Chip's recent struggles) but there are rewards, one of which is gaining some sense of self-esteem and self-worth.
That, and the realization that it really IS them, not you.
Even though I was very clear that my schedule was packed, there was no "assumed obligation," and that I am basically an emotional cripple - she assured me that "this is what it is." Needless to say - not the case.
She started dropping little hints about a longer term commitment that were as suble as a gun.
One thing leads to another, we go out a couple of times and end up in the sack.
Did that a few times until things started to get weird.
I really feel I'm bringing a lot to the table here, I hope you can keep up. On another note, how many have came across their ex wives on a dating site? If anything, online e-dating has proven to be a really interesting experience so far.
I am currently exploring 3 sites - Match, Plenty of Fish, and Ok Cupid.
usually I will DQ someone for this - but there have been exceptions. So anyway - this is where I plan to share some of my adventures with you all. Dave, I just stumbled upon this thread even though it's a few years old. I just divorced my wife after 10 years and was thinking about trying a few of the sites eventually, but now may reconsider.