Sure, they will go out for dinner and do fun activities, but it’s not packaged up in a formal and contrived manner. It’s more organic and instead of defining the relationship in order to know how to act, they let the relationship unfold and the label of boyfriend/girlfriend just naturally develops in the process. European men are comfortable with women, which leads to respect for women.
They grow up developing friendships with the opposite sex and in turn, develop more empathy and understanding of the opposite sex.
In American culture, there is a clear segregation of the sexes, boys play with boys and do boy things and girls do the same.
When I pictured the man of my dreams, he had certain character qualities but no physical ones. They’ve all had one thing in common: They’ve all been white.
For all the ground we covered, we never touched on race. That multi-cultural slant; however, doesn’t apply to the ones with whom I’ve gotten serious.
I’m not to judge that one is better than the other, and mind you, my observations are based on my own experiences as well as a group of women I’ve interviewed in the last two years.
The below is a list of some of the themes and commonalities observed.
In fact, you may be experiencing attractions of deprivation, where you try to recreate the issues from childhood in your romantic partners.
We spelled out (and drew) all of the musts for my future Mr. Your dating past and present doesn’t make you racist, but your dating future does when it’s predetermined by race.
Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid.