If I find out later on that she is dating other men, and I am already into her, I would probably demand that she stop seeing the other guys if she wants to continue dating me.Tasha: In my experience, if a man knows you are dating him and others, he will make you a priority in order to win you over.If you are sleeping with him, he will believe that you are also sleeping with the other guy, plus him, so now you are a slut. We are deciding; the same way that guys date multiple women. It is not an easy thing to do, to decide on the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I never had more than one date with someone I didn't like. There's always going to be someone you connect with more.
Where the hell do men think we learned those things?
Most single women who are dating will complain that finding ‘Mr Right’ is like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Women seem to acknowledge and understand the rules that men play by, but men don’t seem to want to acknowledge that women are allowed to play by these same rules.
My grandfather used to always tell me that a lady cannot do what a man does and still be called a lady.
But there is an obvious double-standard here and double-standards are bull - I make my own rules. Men don't tell all of their business so why should we?
Also, just because you are dating more than one man, does it automatically mean you are having sex with all of them? I am not promoting hoeing, just seeing what options there are.
I didn’t really understand what he meant back then, but that saying is crystal clear to me now. No matter how much we don’t like it and don’t want to admit it, we as women are held to a higher standard than men.
We are expected to be pure and virginal, yet perform like a porn star for them in the bedroom. However, if both parties have not agreed to be exclusive, then neither party should expect exclusivity from the other.
But experts insist that it could well be because these women put all their eggs in one basket by dating one man at a time.
As relationship expert Olga Levancuka, the author of How To Be Selfish, explains: 'Even if you’re not looking for "Mr Perfect" and you’re just interested in casual dating, going out with one guy can limit your choices and leave you feeling slightly disappointed about the whole dating process.'Relationship expert India Kang agrees, adding: 'Multi dating or circular dating is a must. It isn't cheating, it's about keeping your options open.'Here, they share why you should date many men at the same time to ensure you find Mr Right - and avoid getting caught doing it.
Women can try to make the argument that men date multiple women all the time, but men only do this when we are out to ‘play’ - we don’t do this when we are looking for ‘the one’.