Dating multiple people is one of the best ways to find the perfect match for you.'And by perfect match, I don’t mean someone who’s nice to you and looks good on paper, I am talking about finding the best person for you,' said Olga.'Many of us tend to settle for guys who cross our paths and look like good boyfriend material but we don’t actively get out of our comfort zone to find the best possible match for us.
If you are sleeping with him, he will believe that you are also sleeping with the other guy, plus him, so now you are a slut. We are deciding; the same way that guys date multiple women. It is not an easy thing to do, to decide on the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I never had more than one date with someone I didn't like. There's always going to be someone you connect with more.
Men hate to compete, especially for a woman – they just make me sick. Men just want to be the only one, while they run around dating multiple women. But I was never going to be serious with him until he made that move.
Women seem to acknowledge and understand the rules that men play by, but men don’t seem to want to acknowledge that women are allowed to play by these same rules.
My grandfather used to always tell me that a lady cannot do what a man does and still be called a lady.
If they have been on the dating scene for a while and guys have taken them for a ride and continue to do so, eventually they will get fed up and start doing it too. They do it because they can and men always have a back strategy.
Most of the time they end up doing that to someone who really wants to be with them. I told Anique that I will consider dating two guys.
But there is an obvious double-standard here and double-standards are bull - I make my own rules. Men don't tell all of their business so why should we?
Also, just because you are dating more than one man, does it automatically mean you are having sex with all of them? I am not promoting hoeing, just seeing what options there are.
If a woman is not in a mutually committed relationship, she should be able to date as many men as she chooses. I had a roundtable discussion with a few of my friends (both men and women) about this and was quite surprised by some of the answers that I received.
If a woman is dating more than one man at a time, she is not giving enough time or effort to finding out if she is truly compatible with any of them.
But experts insist that it could well be because these women put all their eggs in one basket by dating one man at a time.