Hey Edge, I know that you talk about in-field action and motivation a lot, so I want you to know that I’m not trying to avoid being in field.Still, I work odd hours and the nights that most people are out, I’m working security.Different situations call for more of one or the other, but every situation with women calls for some amount of balls and some amount of strategy combined.
There’s “book knowing” and then there is “whole-being knowing”.
To get a sense of the difference, who would you rather learn driving from: A guy who’s memorized a bunch of books about driving or a Formula 1 race car driver? When you get down to it, game with women comes down to two simple things: your balls your strategy.
In psychology, they call this a “self-fulfilling prophecy”.
Put your focus on really liking yourself and believing that the types of guys you like also like you…
On the other hand if you make the decision to take 2 minutes a day to record and strategize, you will start getting results very quickly. Step two is: Collect as much feedback as you can about your profile.
Men are amazingly good at getting results when they are focused on getting a result and take an organized, systematic approach. Bonus tip: It also helps to have some examples to work from. After several years of coaching, I’ve probably done this several hundred times at this point: Have someone who’s GOOD at online dating evaluate your profile. Just because there’s lots of information out there, it doesn’t mean that it’s USEFUL information or GOOD information.
If you’re going to read it, keep in mind that is way more important than what you do.
So make sure you let the first part of what I said sink in.
It’s an impossible condition, and a lot of men suffer from the illusion that the problem is not having enough information or knowledge.
In terms of meeting women online, I want you to approach this in a way that is most effective and not in a way to avoid things you’re unwilling to do.
But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.” You ever play those games? It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.