The legal and social treatment of prostitution differs widely by country.
I've even gone so far as to ask my wife for an "open" marriage but she said "no way".
Although my frustration with this situation has been getting greater and greater, I still have decided to stay in the marriage (at least for now) because I love my wife and believe that marriage is meant to be a life-long commitment.
Ok, so I know many of the people reading this are going to judge me and HATE me and I'm sorry for offending you, but I am only on here to look for guidance and advice.
I am a 40 year-old married white male who has been married to my wife for 12 years (together for 16) and have always been faithful to her but circumstances have forced me to look for a woman on the side. When I first met my wife, she had a voracious appetite for sex and since my drive was also strong we had an amazing sex life right from the beginning of our relationship.
I also make sure that I share equally with the household chores and cleaning.
I am still very much physically attracted to my wife and I tell her that I think she's beautiful and sexy quite frequently.
Nonetheless, since July 2013, the prostitutes must already be 21 in the City of Amsterdam.
Prostitution and human trafficking is a major problem due to police corruption.
And except for the sexual incompatibility, our marriage is otherwise good.