You will eventually become closer without having to make too much effort, and sparks will gradually fly on their own.
It sounds so high school and childish, I know, but this tip really works wonders.
Even a friendly date could be a bit hard to offer when you are not yet used to it.
It is perfectly natural to have inhibitions and being shy around guys in general, especially if you’ve been raised in a conservative home or have been sent to an all-girls school.
This would make way to having nice, long and actually sensible conversations that will make you learn more about each other.
Of course, getting to know each other more will lead to him seeing you differently.
Have you heard about the saying “Whatever comes out your mouth comes true because the universe will conspire hearing you say it”?
Hearing someone say you guys look perfect together is a surefire way to pique his interest, and see you in a totally different light, this time shifting from platonic to romantic.
It could be a basketball game, a theatre play, a favorite band’s concert, or even to her school org’s meeting.
The point is to not make it seem like you are following, or even worse, stalking him.
This is a common mistake most girls unconsciously make.
Girls nowadays usually have guy friends that others might misinterpret as romantic rather than platonic.
But because time has changed and mindsets are now more liberated and modernized, more girls now are having the guts to ask their crushes out.