I want it to impact the lives of millions, forming a tribe of strong, gritty, good men than will change time’s course versus the direction of history had it not been created.
To accomplish this I realize that may have an even greater hand in this than I.
Living life, experiencing this wonderful existence requires of us that we aim to reach our potential and in aiming to reach our potential, we have to dare pretty fucking mightily.
Your family is better off if you’re at your best, if you somehow actually reach this unattainable goal that is your true potential. Not an average man doing average things, but a man who dares mightily, and even may fail on an equally grand scale. This idea of becoming more self-centered can be difficult to articulate without going too far in one direction for a number of reasons.
For one, all of the guys I know who are successful, be they in their businesses or in life, are generous beyond belief.
Regardless, I had to take a step back for a second.
Here I was, having been taught to help first, that the man who gives everything away is good and pure, it’s a lie.
This flies in the face of all we’ve been taught about how to be a better man, an alpha, a warrior, this selfless individual who does for others before he does for himself.
We’re taught that a leader takes care of those around him before he worries about his own needs.So the notion that self-centerdness has to come at the cost of generosity is false.They go hand in hand and you’re not being generous for your own gain you’re being generous because being generous makes you better and it makes you feel better. Being disciplined and focused makes you a much better man.We’re taught that goodness comes from service, and change in this world, if you want to become a legend, a real leader, a real man, and an alpha male, you have to be more self-centered.I think it was 5 years ago, but my dates are a little foggy.Self improvement and development and becoming great is selfish, it has to be.