Is it getting to the point where you need to have “the talk” with the guy you’re dating?Here, Christian Carter explains why trying to force a man into a commitment never works…and how to set things up right from the start so he’s the one asking you for exclusivity.
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And one of the unspoken standards that is most attractive to a man is a woman who is what I call “selective.” HOW BEING SELECTIVE MAKES HIM WANT ONLY YOU When a man has an easy time having a woman fall for him, or a man sees a woman acting in a way that says she will not be okay without his love and commitment, then a man is turned off.
He senses that the reason she wants to move forward is more about satisfying unmet emotional needs than about true connection and appreciation.
You can do it by saying something as simple as: “It’s completely your right to date more than one woman at a time, but I want you to know that I’m looking for an exclusive relationship with the right person.
So I just want to find out if we’re on the same page before taking things further.” Notice that you’re not making any demands.
It’s a little place I put up in hopes of getting people together and I try to center the theme around meeting, dating, and interactions between both men and women.
I figured it would be a great place to post every great article written by Christian which I’ve been allowed to share to help you short-term and maybe help you decide whether his stuff is right for you or not.Yes, that DOES suck but I figure since you’re getting what you need, who am I to keep you from it just because it would be nice to earn my fair share… If you have lots of questions about men and they all seem to start with “WHY? Whether you’re just dating a guy, in a committed relationship or even married, I believe Christian understands men, how we think, what we want from you, and exactly how our attraction works.ou might not know this but I also run “The Approach“.My hands are tied and there’s nothing I can do about it.You either start by signing up to his newsletter and try out his book, or I get absolutely nothing from it. Christian Carter is for any woman who wants to learn the inner-workings of the male mind.you have to work for it with your time and your money AND you must be willing to open your mind to allow fresh new ideas inside.