Men seem to greatly enjoy playing it ignorant and innocent, but trust me, they know what they’re doing and there is always a reason (and no, it isn’t always because ‘he’s just not that into you’).
I’ve definitely had my ups and downs in the love-department and my experiences have taught me that when you need a shoulder to cry on, round up your girl friends and when you need answers, ask a guy.
As a final note, ask for a man’s number before the two of you are about to part, and continue to talk to him and keep the conversation going after you get his number.
Doing so makes the whole thing feel more natural and comfortable than if you just went for the number right away and then ran off.
If you don’t have anyone around you to ask who might know his orientation, then you’re going to need to get it out of him yourself.
This doesn’t have to be difficult and it doesn’t have to be a big deal.
While it can be difficult to know a man’s orientation if you see him in a coffee shop or meet him on the street, if he’s in with people you know, then all you need to do is ask those people which team he plays for.
If you meet a man in a social situation (such as a bar) but you don’t know the people he’s with, you can still ask them and they’ll likely to tell you.If the guy you’re seeing, or dating, or in a relationship with is doing something that you just can’t understand, don’t drive yourself crazy trying to figure it out- just join the A New Mode newsletter and we’ll answer burning questions (and send you daily game-changing relationship tips too).We will post the questions and answers weekly (don’t worry, we’ll keep you anonymous) or maybe a few days per week more depending on how shady the men in your life have been acting!Preparing to Ask a Guy Out Other Strategies for Asking a Guy Out Additional Ideas Community Q&A Once upon a time, only boys could ask out girls.But we're living in a time that doesn't require a girl to just sit around waiting for the guy to ask her out.If you want to ask a guy out, then all you have to do is prepare in advance, exude confidence, and react appropriately.