Generally speaking, bartenders are awesome people, so dating one can be a real joy.We're not super humans, we're not all drunks, we're not all drug addicts, and we live relatively ‘normal’ lives.
"A guy needs to prove that he's worthy of your undivided attention before you give it to him."Writing down (or at least thinking about) what you're looking for is actually a good thingit keeps you focused on what's really important to you in a long-term boyfriend (such as he wants to get married eventually, likes kids, dislikes prison..know, the little things).
But here's the deal: Most of us end up loading that list up with preferences, not non-negotiables.
We might choose to hook up your entourage too, but they better tip like Ed Mc Mahon just visited them. Like mornings, these are something we hear about and maybe read about, but we don’t experience them. Some of us actually choose to do this for a living. Someone comes in bright and shiny, orders some flamboyant martini and starts telling us how great things are.
Of course you’re drinking for free, as long as you’re a Saint and resist the urge to defend our honor. For the love of god, if your friend Tina orders one more Mojito with extra mint I’m gonna bury the muddler in her face.
If we have the time, you know we are gonna hook that sweet ass up, but don’t push it.
The “morning” is a fictitious time, like something from an old story book. Watch and enjoy, knowing you’re getting the nookie and they’re getting the bill. If something is on special, or the bar is 3 deep at the well, don’t ask for something high maintenance. Even if we’re not looking at you, we hear and will have advice for you. When we text you we are closing, it means we are kicking out the wasted frat boys. There are all sorts of disgusting things that have to be cleaned before we even think about leaving.
A diamond might be forever, but a moment on the lips and a lifetime on the hips is just as harrowing.6.
Love is all you need, you (and John Lennon) thought.
Your friends' advice will be based on their own past, so it's going to be a bit biased.
That doesn't mean you can't hear them out, just keep in mind where their take on things might be coming from.
Brunson says he sees the same thing happening: Women will go on a few dates with a guy and only pursue someone else when things start to fizzle, while men cast a wider net and casually date several women at once.